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Divination: An Introduction

Divination is the technical term for what most people would call fortune telling, but the reality of what divination is, is a bit more complicated than that. Most realistic practitioners will admit that most forms of divination simply offer a guideline, and the reader is simply interpreting the probable outcome based upon the forces presently […]

“The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now.” – Chinese Proverb

Homage to my Hips by Lucille Clifton

these hips are big hips. they need space to move around in. they don’t fit into little petty places. these hips are free hips. they don’t like to be held back. these hips have never been enslaved, they go where they want to go they do what they want to do. these hips are mighty […]

Community Property/Separate Property Law and Its Implications (California) Part: 2

…cont’d Practical Application of the Law: While filing taxes as married- separate rather than jointly can effectively solve the problem in some states, it will not reduce spousal liability in a community law state, such as California. California is 100% spousal liability, meaning that any and all liability that your spouse might owe, can and […]

Community Property/Separate Property Law and Its Implications (California) Part: 1

In the state of California, community property is any asset acquired, or income earned, by a married person while living with a spouse. Separate property is defined as anything acquired by a spouse before the marriage, during the marriage by gift, devise, or bequest, and after the parties separate. However separate property is not always […]

Borderline personality disorder (BPD)

Borderline personality disorder (BPD), also known as emotionally unstable personality disorder, is a long-term pattern of abnormal behavior characterized by unstable relationships with other people, unstable sense of self, and unstable emotions. Many diagnosed with this disorder experience an extreme fear of abandonment and a feeling of emptiness, which can result in frequent dangerous behavior and self-harm. Symptoms (such as splitting) may be […]

Splitting (Psychology)

Splitting (or thinking in terms of “black and white”, as it is commonly called) is the failure in a person’s thinking to bring together the dichotomy of both positive and negative qualities of the self and others into a cohesive, realistic whole. An individual with this type of perspective tends to think in extremes (i.e., an individual’s actions […]